How to Know If Your Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine Are Out of Balance
First things first, what the heck does “Divine Feminine” and “Divine Masculine” even mean?
To be able to determine if your Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies are out of whack, it’s important to, first and foremost, understand the characteristics and tendencies of each, as well as this absolutely crucial truth…
There's often a misunderstanding around the masculine & feminine, yin & yang, Shiva & Shakti - that when we talk about the Divine Masculine & Divine Feminine, we're talking about men & women, respectively or that one is "better" than the other, but that's not the case.
Each person, regardless of gender, has *both* masculine & feminine energies. Everyone expresses both, & one energy is NOT supreme. I’m really passionate about getting this truth out there. Thanks for coming to my TED Talk. 😀
Okay, so what are the respective tendencies of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies?
For so long, patriarchal society has glorified the masculine energy of doing, pushing, " #hustlehard , put your head down, shut up & work" & devalued the feminine energy of flow, intuition, creativity, vulnerability, connection & simply being. So we've all learned to "man up" in order to "make it."
Both energies are vital, beautiful in their own ways, & full of respective virtues; it becomes a problem when an imbalance occurs or rather, a lack of harmonization, i.e. when we let one energy become super dominant & run the whole damn show.
Now that you have a sense of what comprises each energy, you can begin to see if one energy is in the driver’s seat in your own life.
We're certainly not looking for an exact 50/50 balance, but a sacred harmonization that works best for each of us and the situation that we're in is what we're after.
Because I primarily help women who are stuck operating mainly in their masculine energy, let’s dive into what this looks like.
What does a woman whose masculine energy is calling ALL the shots look like?
▶️A solopreneur w/ an endless to-do list, who's hitting goals but burnt out AF.
▶️An ambitious professional who spends most of her waking hours at work with no time for pleasure & dating.
▶️A manager who can't delegate because "if you want it done right, you have to do it yourself!"
▶️A friend who has the "perfect life" on paper - impressive degree, great job, Pinterest-worthy house - but who's exhausted & can't say no to anyone.
▶️A leader who takes care of everything & everyone but herself & feels guilty about putting herself first.
▶️A woman who’s afraid to soften, fully relax and show vulnerability in relationships for fear of looking weak or getting hurt.
▶️Someone who’s anxious AF, driven by perfectionism and doing more and more to prove her worth.
My mission is to help women who are nearly always operating in their masculine find their harmony & peace.
If you're still reading this, there's likely a reason, lovely one. I’m excited to share that I’m hosting a giveaway for a FREE three-month coaching series (giveaway is open May 13 - June 14, 2019).
If finding your harmonization and coming home to your Divine Feminine - to flow, ease, intuition, confidence, self-love- without sacrificing success- sounds amazing to you, enter the giveaway today or book your free discovery session with me!💞